Being an animal lover, especially dogs, my home has lacked that companionship for quite sometime after losing my last beautiful dog to cancer. The house and office were both quite as My animals always travel with me, from home, work and even sometimes play, providing a wonderful sense of security even in the most awkward and threatening of positions.

Today though, was a day in which I didn’t expect. Traveling in and out of my local animal shelters, I came face to face with the most beautiful, and unbelievable animal. My newest family member now weighs in a 150 pounds (and is ‘underweight’ according to my vet) and should weigh at least another 25 pounds or more! He has found himself welcomed, loved and comfortable in his new home, and now I, feel like my life is just a bit more fulfilling by offering this beautiful dog a wonderful home and unconditional love.

His breed (and he is full blooded) can go for as much 2K for a puppy, but believe it or not, I rescued this one for under a C note. I have truthfully wondered why anyone would put an animal like this into the pound. My travels through the overcrowded conditions of the shelters gave me more than one tear to stream down my cheek and if there is anything that I URGE everyone to do is to shut down the puppy mills, the irresponsible owners who don’t fix their dogs, and go find your local shelter and ADOPT!

Our shelters here are filled with not only dogs and cats, but hamster, rats, tons of bunnies, peacocks, pigs and chickens… not to mention other exotic animals. Please, reconsider buying from a pet store and in turn please visit your local shelter. One less animal in there makes a warm and loving home somewhere else. Give them ALL a chance! I have rescued everyone of my animals, and they have been the most rewarding companions ever!

Visit the local pages below to find where you can give a loving home to a beautiful animal or to donate to help keep the shelters comfortable and clean:

http://www.aspca.org

http://www.canines.com/

http://www.novoiceunheard.org/

http://www.akc.org/

Now, back to our regularly scheduled kink!

Cum visit me at www.ladyvelvetnoir.com

There are times when I truly feel that there is a point in time when things are relative. This being definitely one of them. A friend of mine constantly states:

“Perception is reality to those who perceive it.”

Couldn’t be more truthful.

So this morning as I was reading and doing some research the age old questions was approached: IS Phone Sex or Cyber Sex the same as cheating?

Truthfully, I can’t answer that for everyone. For me, no, it’s not. But in truth, the idea that it is cheating is a very real problem for many couples as the internet makes it easier to anonymously access and feed their fetishes. Some may see this behavior as a way of feeding sexual addiction, but at the same time, you have to see things on the realm that what he is doing is safe, secure and healthy. For instance, if he were to identify that he had had a real time encounter, my biggest concern would be regarding the disease factor. At least over the internet, and over a phone, you KNOW that he is being careful about disease and considering your safety and factor as well.

Second, sometimes men (and I know this because I am a real time Domme and phone sex operator in the business for 10+ years) need an outlet that is more than what they feel comfortable with telling someone they love. For instance, maybe he has a fantasy regarding Dominating a woman or even submitting to one, where they feel the activities are too extreme to follow through in real life but will ‘explode’ if they don’t have some kind of outlet. The only way to overcome this ideal is to open up and possibly have some of those taboo discussions with him/her in order to open the gates to more honesty and unreserved conversations. It is completely natural to have these fantasies, and only some will act on them. Some, in turn, feel that the only way to indulge is to do so online or over a phone. Either way, it is a conversation that they are probably having difficulties addressing with you, OR have tried to and found it too un-fulfilling because their partner is not willing to even address it.

On the flip side, Dominating men struggle with the ethical ideal of having that sadistic side to them and know or feel that it is inappropriate to indulge in those tendencies. The ONLY time I feel it is appropriate in a real time environment is when the adults involved are consensual and ONLY then. I do not condone abuse nor do I support it whether it be mental, physical or emotional. However, if done correctly, these types of relationships are the most intense, loving and secure relationships than any ‘normal’ (by society standards) I have ever seen, basing it on a 100% honesty and trust and communication.

Addicts are those who have a tendency to show the following signs:

1. Their addiction is costing them more than they can spend. Whether it be financially, time, or even emotional standing, it does begin to affect all three severely.
2. Addicts will risk ANYTHING to feed their addiction, including health, career, education and all types of relationships;
3. Addicts typically are insistent on feeding their addiction more and more. Meaning that if they started online and after years are just indulging online or over the phone more than likely they will not pursue something in real time. Addicts are normally not content with just online or phone materials to feed their addiction.

Remember, the safety that they feel they have with the World Wide Web or just a phone call is real. They can anonymously confess, enact or just plain have an ear that will listen safely and securely. Don’t judge to harshly what your boyfriend (and what Gillian) is doing. Their might be something lacking (or not) in their lives that they are too embarrassed to convey to their partners. If that is the case, then open the gate for him. Give him just a bit of tolerance and see if you can’t be the focus of his fantasies by doing so.

I am not saying accept their behavior as ultimately you have to do what is right for you. 10 years ago if you had asked me if I would be doing this, I too would baulked at the idea, but since then, I do feel I have not offered a service to those who need a safe way to express themselves, but I have found that become an open minded individual and non-judgmental about people’s taboos (unless it involves innocence of children and animals) has made my life less stressful and I continue to learn a great deal about people, life and human nature.

As a quick note:
If you are craving what you need and online is enough, great, however, if it is not, PLEASE be sure that you find a local group and mentoring situation that makes your search a safe, sane and consensual one. There are far too many predators out there.

Here are some Community resources that might be of interest to you:

http://www.pakratpress.com/sinergy/comunity/groups.htm

http://www.fetbot.com/Links/Lifestyle/Organizations/

http://www.the-crucible.com/groups.htm

I am sure that there are many more good resources out there, so please feel free to send me your resource so I can ad it to my ever growing list of SSC/RACK links.

Lady Velvet Noir

For more information on me, please visit me at www.LadyVelvetNoir.com

After a long vacation and putting some efforts into a really long process of helping out another business, I now have another billing option for both my callers AND my members. Today, I officially launch both of them and have officially become part of www.SluttyPhoneGirls.com. I highly recommend checking out the other ladies online there too. They are pretty amazing and some are definitely worth contacting for appointments if you don’t see them online.

As some of my callers know, I do prefer making appointments myself because then we have all the time to talk and get down and dirty together, but I am definitely up for those last minute calls too.

For now, I have tons to talk about regarding my vacation and so much more to discuss as time goes!

Look forward to hearing from my naughty boys again!

VANCOUVER, British Columbia (Reuters) - A Canadian man who claims he was discriminated against as a pagan who practices a form of sadomasochism will get to take his complaint to a human rights tribunal.

An appeals court rejected a bid by Vancouver police on Tuesday to block a hearing on whether Peter Hayes’ rights were violated when an officer refused to grant him the permit he needed to get a chauffeur’s job.

Hayes complained to British Columbia’s Human Rights Tribunal that he was discriminated against because he is a pagan who practices a “BDSM lifestyle” and deserves protection under the human rights code, based on sexual orientation.

BDSM refers to bondage, discipline and submission and sadism and masochism, according to the court documents.

Police went to the courts, arguing the tribunal and a lower court judge erred in agreeing to hear Hayes’ complaint because the laws designed to protect the sexual orientation of gays and lesbians did not extend to protecting types of sexual practices.

A B.C. Court of Appeal panel ruled unanimously that the police motion was premature since the tribunal’s hearing was to decide what, if any, sexual practices deserved legal protection, and even the tribunal’s chairwoman was unsure if the human rights code did that.

“How can the tribunal determine if BDSM falls within the meaning of ’sexual orientation’ if it does not have a full understanding of what BDSM means?” Justice Anne Rowles wrote for the three-judge panel.

(Reporting Allan Dowd, Editing by Rob Wilson)

Good morning dear readers!

Please make sure you take note of my new number! 877-758-8969

Also, after some difficulty with the new payment processing system, the bugs have been worked out! Sorry for the inconvenience to those who I was out of touch! A big thank you to those who pointed out the problem, but it has been resolved.

So, I look forward to hearing from you all again. And don’t forget the new Membership and Video On Demand area’s as well!

Come visit me at www.LadyVelvetNoir.com

One of My admirer’s who has been very faithful from the start has been offering some services that have helped a great deal (not sexual mind you). However, when he requested a reward, he got more than what he was bargaining for. A release was ordered from him twice, and each one of them was to be accompanied with a written statement of no less than 500 words… he did perfectly and his efforts were definitely showing. he has pleased Me and thought My readers might enjoy reading his little fantasy as well. he has just found out now, that asking for rewards might not be the best way to get them….

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I am sitting here at work looking forward to Your assignment. As You wish i have masterbated twice for You today.

i masturbated thinking how an encounter with You Mistress would be educational and very sexual and turns me on. The following is what i was thinking as i stroked my cock for You. I picture meeting You in a hotel room that is designed for this use.

You will obey me *pushes me down with Your spiked boots on my chest and takes your 4 inch leather whip out slapping it across my hand* *like my outfit* *spikes and leather baby* does that sound submissive????? I say yes Mistress it does.
You grab a chain and some handcuffs and cuffs my hands to the bed and a chain to my legs.
My jaw drops. My dick throbs. I can hardly manage to force myself to breathe. My eyes explore Your body only to be trapped again by Your eyes. You walk forward to me slowly, in a controlled manor, as though You are paying attention to every move your making. One hand slapping that leather whip across my hand repeatedly.

Then you push me back onto the bed, Your hair draping around my face as I am pushed on my back, grabs my hands and pins them and suddenly I find myself chained to the bed and before I could protest my legs are chained.

Just one more question…whats my next command Mistress ?

QUIET SLAVE* as You pull out a black silk scarf blindfold and slide up letting Your legs straddle mine while You tie the scarf around my eyes “Smell the leather Slave?” Doesn’t it turn you on the way it does me….Your long hair brushes my face… All the while i am asking U for my the next command. U say i want to torture you a bit more before I let you loose to do my bidding…

You slide your leather whip across my chest and traces a imaginary line down my body, allowing the frayed end of the whip to caress my exposed cock*

“From now ON you address me as Mistress.

My sense of touch and smell becomes highly enhanced as my eyes are covered, I see blackness. But I feel you, I sense u, the smell of leather and your perfume mix together and intoxicate me. I feel Your whip sliding across me sending shivers down my spine.

My mouth is open, gasping at the sensation. Taking in sharp breaths. I feel my butt tighten in a mock of what my body wants to do so bad to her. My erect dick thrusts forward up into the air, my stomach muscles clench as I feel the frayed end touching my cock. I realize my back has arched and I am thrusting up towards you, humping the air. I hear you giggle obviously you are enjoying the show. I feel you climb on top of me Your naked thighs sliding against my body as you straddle me. Yes Mistress i say i will do whatever you want me to do.

Your body slinks and slides over mine as Your breasts touch my chest, Your hands slide over mine arms.. as you pin them over my head and pulling out your handcuffs and cuff them together.

Biting and clawing my skin until You leave red marks on my skin.. You draw blood as you nibble and suck on my neck. Biting me very hard that I let out a sharp gasp as your teeth sink into your flesh.

“Do You like pain my submissive one?” I say yes Mistress. Your hips straddle my hips as you feel my hardened manhood poke you as your hips gyrate in the air.

Pulling out a pair of nipple clamps You fasten the ring onto the my erect and hard nipples as You tighten and squeeze the clamps into place causing a piercing pain as You pull on the chain connected to the tight clamp squeezing your slave’s nipples even tighter.

Just feeling Your body…Your breasts glide over me was a powerful aphrodisiac. I moaned and growled incoherently as my Mistress clawed, bit and nibbled on my flesh. Your teeth and tongue grazing my body sent tingles down my spine.

I kept thrusting up, grinding into Your lower body, poking You with my throbbing manhood, Your naked thigh sliding next to mine. I couldn’t see you but I was sure you had a smile on Your face, seeing how much You had turned me on.

And then suddenly I felt the cold metal clamping my erect sensitive nipples..aaahhh..I gasped, taking in a sharp breath, my teeth gritting, as I tried to keep myself from screaming out loud. I felt a piercing pain as You pulled hard on my nipples hoping You wouldn’t pull so hard again. I struggled to move, but found it difficult as the handcuffs kept chaffing my wrists.

And then you asked me, Do you like pain my slave. I replied to my mistress straight away..
“Yes, I like it….but only when its You who gives the pain mistress..

I was ready and willing to fill my Mistress needs at this moment. When You said i think you are too aroused and need to cool down. I beg Mistress please let me satisfy you. With my eyes still covered you tell me if i see one drop of cum from my cock you will punish me. You get up off me leaving me tied up and blindfolded. You comeback and you stick my cock in a bucket of ice.

Now that i was frustrated and even more horny you put a collar around my neck and unchain me and put me in my cage. You uncover my eyes and lock the door. Then you sit in front of me making me watch You masturbate.

Sitting in my cage i I wondered what else you had in mind, how else was she going to torture me…

The end.

P.S. I had to masturbate again after writing this.

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I have to say I am impressed with My toy and think that the next time he will have to control those urges a bit better.

For more tantalizing stories, images, a membership area for those VIP’s and a Video on Demand area filled with good Fetish Films and Bondage movies, check Me out at: http://www.ladyvelvetnoir.com

There isn’t a day that doesn’t go buy where an application to serve, or what I call a ‘petition’ doesn’t come across my desk. Normally, I see very few applicants that come close to meeting the criteria of serving Me, and as a rule of thumb, most don’t get past the first 5 items on my list. So, after thinking a bit, I thought I would give a general guideline as to what most Fem Doms/Mistresses’ expect and then from there, you can determine if you are going to get your foot through the front door.

Every week, I get dozens of applications, inquiries and offers from men who want to apply to real time slave or submissive sissy service for me. This is my basic check list for new applicants who want to apply for such positions. You can use this criteria as a guideline to apply to most any Mistress or Goddess of your choosing.

1. Address
   • When first addressing Her, make sure you use Caps on any item referring to “Her, She, Mistress, Lady etc” Once you have received direction on what to call Her, then make sure you never forgo those caps.
   • Spelling of the name is crucial, so when in doubt, double check before you send that email/letter!
   • Make sure when addressing Her, that your name is lowered in caps including ‘i’ and even the letters of your first name.
2. Letter Content
   • Make sure your letter is personal and not some form you filled in. The time you put into your words will actually be welcomed and embraced.
   • Details are very crucial when writing. As much about yourself as you can share is important as then She will know just where you wish to take things and what you need from this. The more details the better. She may reply asking several questions but that is a good sign and should be answered in a timely manner as well. Fantasies are welcome, but one liners are preferred. If She wants to go into it further She will ask you to write more later.
   • Deception in a letter can be smelled a mile away by a good Mistress and therefore if you attempt that scenario, you won’t get far. Remember, it is easy now a days to trace IP addresses and such and if you have spoken to Her before and She remembers you, then you should be up front and honest with everything. If you have applied to several Domina’s in between visits, it is wise to let Her know that for several reasons: 1) This lifestyle is NOT for those habitual liars, 2) Why were you not accepted or did it not go anywhere (as She can take this information and use it to help you make a match).
   • Check your letter for grammar and spelling. We are not mothers, and prefer to show that you are educated and well learned in all aspects of necessities.
3. History
   • Be clear about weather or not you have served before, and in what capacity (switch, top, bottom)
   • Also indicate your sexuality, knowing that a slave is open to a bi-sexual experience is not only a good thing to know but it also opens up many additional avenues of play time excursions.
   • Your sexual, mental and physical health is also important. Most Mistresses have no problem playing with those with limitations, but we HAVE TO KNOW about them. If you don’t tell Us, then We might run into problems and not be able to trust you for further interludes.
   • Married, girlfriend, boyfriends? Anyone else important in your life that we need to know about? Reason: If you are marked or otherwise have some type of attack, we need to know about emergency calls/contacts and who might question it if they see cane marks across your backside and weather we can leave them or not…
4. Manners
   • ALWAYS be polite. Anonymity and tone’s are sometimes the two hardest things to get past in this day and age. With email being the number one source of communication now a days, it is crucial that you remain on high alert with where please and thank you’s need to go. Treat Her like you would treat your own mother and like the Lady that she is.
   • Make sure your email’s don’t have anything crude about them. This will get you a long way. Most of Us prefer addressing and dealing with gentleman and not the wanker boy who is just looking to get off.
   • Don’t go into such detail about your fantasies as more into what you intend to do for Her and your service to her. After all, this is about Us… not you.
   • Be prepared to send a picture. Make sure you have a clothed one as well as a possible nude one. I, much prefer the clothed ones and enjoy seeing the eyes of the individual I am talking to. Other Mistresses’ might wish to have other pictures sent, so being prepared is actually a plus.
   • Make sure when answering Her questions you cut and paste the original question and answer it below. Don’t make us hunt for the answers either.
   • If you don’t hear from Her within a week or so, sending a follow up email is encouraged on My end. I am more apt to think that you are even more eager than I had suspected and follow up sooner than later.
5. Closure
   • Remember, W/we ALL change our minds. The best way to do so is to be sure you communicate that to Her and let Her know. You never know when you might regret that decision and want to return to Her feet to beg to service again.

Nearly all Fem Doms/Mistresses’ appreciate a well thought out and well mannered letters of petition and even though these are some guidelines, everyone wants things a little different. So if ever in doubt… ASK! Do it respectfully and you will find it will get you a long way!

For more BDSM or Fetish information, pictures, membership area, videos on demand or just to talk to Lady Velvet Herself, visit Her website at: www.ladyvelvetnoir.com

Well pets, I have been gone for 4 days and have returned safe and sound. A bit sunburned and wind blown from the weathering elements that I was subjected to, but it was an eventful trip to say the least. I am rested now, and even though still a bit wishing I had a vacation to recover from My vacation, I needed to tend to business as it were.

Although I did spend several ours a day wondering weather My ‘pets’ were behaving themselves as they had been instructed? We will see! I have some wonderfully devious idea’s on how to punish, and reward for those that deserve them. But now comes the fun part….!

I want each everyone of you who had directions from Me while I was gone to write Me a report and tell Me what inticing activities, thoughts, fantasies that you had while you were on restriction (or not on restriction). Details! Does your pathetic cock get hard while thinking about writing Me? Do you wish to touch it and please yourself? Don’t you dare deny me the pleasure of hearing you beg, and release!

I expect to hear from ALL of you within the next few days!

Meanwhile, visit My site and see My new membership area… and read the other’s stories that I will be posting soon!

www.ladyvelvetnoir.com

Just for those of you who wish to know, I am taking a trip out of town that will put me out of my element for about a week.  I will be back on Monday of next week!

Until then, feel free to leave Me your great messages and checkout the tour page for the new Members Area off the site at:

www.ladyvelvetnoir/tour/ 

Remember, you can always fine me at www.ladyvelvetnoir.com!

If you are itching for that call and I am not available, try my friends at

• www.ladytorment.com
• www.ladyshellys.com
• www.baycityblues.com 

Yummy!

As promised, I have added a new members area to the infinite fun one Adult can have online on one site. Filled with content from a well known real time Dominate and producer of fetish films that not only state extreme, but also give some fun to the play time, Dr. Kink (aka Master Leonard.) Not only can you sneak a peak to see some of his films in My membership area, I also give you a place to buy the whole film and see it from start to finish with a Video On Demand section. I have priced memberships to your liking were a 1 month is cheap but a 3 month is even cheaper!

Have any films that you haven’t seen? Maybe some fetishes? I will do my best to line up the camera crew and a few good models very soon to offer a rounded out feature of new video and galleries that fit your liking. You should be seeing some good CBT films, spanking and whipping films, male bondage and more in the future. Just remember, you are probably not going to see these intimate insights to these films anywhere else unless you buy the film yourself through the producers.

Unfortunately, we have also lost a great publishing and notification portion of our site. My Fem-Dom Wikizine is no longer in publication due to a change in the Zimbio’s publication policy. It was a great way to educate those out there and so I hope to be finding a new way to produce a newsletter/e-magazine very soon!

Stay tuned as there are so many more things cumming your direction!

Lady V

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And don’t forget to show your appreciation by voting at my new Ballot Box at: www.ladyvelvetnoir.com/vote-for-me.shtml